In my experience of working as a confidence Consultant, majority
of my clients BLOCK their CONFIDENCE, growing to another level, as the common limiting belief that is held is..
Will I be GOOD enough?
This is such a defeated way to view yourself, that it actually doesn’t take you
any where.
It only keeps you STUCK!
The only way to become GOOD enough, is to…
know your subject
Research your subject
Know the solutions to the problems
Become a speciality in that field.
Further more, tell yourself…
I AM GOOD ENOUGH!
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One of the most indulging acts a woman can do for herself, is having a makeover.
On Valentines, I always indulge in something positively uplifting for myself. I like to experience different ways to do this.
In my local town of St Albans, in St. Christopher Place is a excellent beauty store called
Space. NK. apothecary.
This store is crammed with beauty products for the hair/body/skin from all over the world.
As I walked in there recently to purchase my usual conditioner, I was invited to indulge in a FREE makeover.
So I accepted this kind offer and came back a week later.
I was sat in the chair and my face was given a 2 hour makeover, I had lotions and potions and different makeup, that I wouldn’t normally wear applied to my face.
It was a delight,I informed Gemma the makeup artist, to get creative with her skills and just to go by what she thought would bring out the best in my skin and features.
It was a success, the makeup did look striking and she gave me some good tips to go home with.
What was great about Gemma, she didn’t deliver any hard sale. I even got offered a delightful cool glass of champagne, to enjoy whilst I was being made up.
I didn’t purchase anything, as I use Aloe Vera, forever living products, that are fantstic for my skin and are enriched with vitamins and ant- anging.
However I am always open to other products on the market.
Gemman was warm, friendly and we had a good chat about what I do as I buisnes and what her aspirations are.
Gemma also informed me that a lot of men now indulge in facicals, so it isn’t just a target for women to look beautiful.
So if you haven’t ever indulged in a makeover, pop into a big boots store, there are always makeup artist, eager to practise on wonderful people like you.
What a great way to FEEL GORGEOUS!
What are you waiting for, go and get booked!
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Public SPEAKING is known to be one of the BIGGEST fears for anyone to face.
Why is this?
Well from my own experience of having this issue, these are my reasons.
Will I sound odd?
Will I look stupid?
Will I fluff my words?
Will I be able to keep flowing?
My list is endless.
However my plan was to CONQUER this FEAR and I believe I have.
I conquered my FEAR, by DOING it and my CONFIDENCE has grown!
The interesting thing that I discovered, was that majority of speakers have a battle with nerves before they go on stage. So it is very normal and of course the more you do it, the more you get CONFIDENT.
If you are DETERMINED to do this, I can recommend a great RESCOURCE that will support you every step of the way.
Toastmasters are BRILLIANT, they gave you the space, the platform to deliver and best of all you get lost of encouragements.
I am a member of my local branch in the Red Lion Pub, Hatfield, Herts.
If joining a club is too much for you, then take small positive steps.
1.Get use to giving individuals eye contact.
2.Seek the name of those you are speaking too and use their name it creates rapport.
3. Speak out your opinion on a subject in a group setting, get use to having your voice heard.
4. Seek opportunity to speak to more than one in a group.
5. Explore ways to build rapport.
Rapport is the mother of effective communication. Confdent public speaking doesn’t have to start in huge audience, just apply any of the tips above and you should be easily on your way to building your confidence
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This is the most common limiting thought individuals have about themselves, when they embark on something new in their life.
CAN I DO IT ?
Well let us explore this further…
To do any ACTIVITY, you must know how to do it.
This means…
Understanding the whole receipe of what is involved.
So for e.g.
If you wanted to learn a new language, then you would need to follow the following receipe.
1. Find were to study the language.
2. Find what rescouces you need, on line study, in clas.
3 Research the best method for LEARNING.
4. Listen to the CD’S as often as applicable.
5. Do your homework.
6 PRACTICE, UNTILL YOU MASTER.
So there for YOU CAN DO IT!
It just takes EFFORT and ACTION to get the RESULT you want.
Don’t let anybody tell you any different, if they do, they are projecting their limitiing beliefs about themselves on to you .
Tell yourself…
I CAN DO IT AND I WILL SUCCEED!
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That is right… Your mind can become CONFIDENT!
Everything we want, first starts in the MIND.
So if you want to become CONFIDENT, then you need to get CONFIDENT POWER in your mind.
The first place to start is to consider what you are FEEDING your mind with.
What are you EXSPOSING your mind too?
Who are you INFLUENCED by?
Where do you spend most of your time?
Who do you listen to?
Who are you modelling?
Every person we have attracted in our lives , they will be either a DRAINER or a RADIATOR.
What does this mean?
In short this means, are individuals pulling you down or are they building your CONFIDENCE.
Confidence is KEY to SUCCESS!
So consider what you are GIVING your mind attention too , is it helping you to feel good about who you are , or is it helping to pull you down and stay stuck.
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Do you really want CONFIDENCE?
Are you really ready to make those tiny little CHANGES?
Have you DECIDED that you are going to take ACTION?
Will you make RESPONSIBILITY your BEST FRIEND?
So to SOAR like a EAGLE with CONFIDENCE, you need to consider all the above.
Getting CONFIDENT,will not happen by thinking about it!
You are going to have to get up and move your BODY and more so CHANGE your THINKING!
The GOOD news is you CAN soar like a EAGLE with CONFIDENCE, as I am living PROOF.
So if you want me to CHALLENGE you, then I will, be prepared to SOAR, like never before.
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when you DECIDE that you are now ready to REAP more CONFIDENCE into your life, how do you use your language?
Let me explain…
Your WORDS have power!
Your WORDS carry energy!
Your WORDS carry a negative vibration or a positive vibration!
Your WORDS will become your REALITY!
Your WORDS will be either a BLESSING or a CURSE to your life!
So the question, you may be considering is, how do I speak into being more CONFIDENT!
Speak life transforming words into you life.
Confess and decree with your mouth, everyday what you want to become. Then notice miracles happen around you.
for e.g.
I am confident
I am happy with who I am
I am assertive, when needed
I am valuable and lovable
I am a positive influence on all those around me
Now consider some of your own.
This is your life, the words you CHOOSE to describe yourself, is what will become yur REALITY, whether NEGATIVE or POSITIVE!
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A new year and a new YOU is just around the corner.
Are you willing to take responsibility for becoming CONFIDENT for 2010!
Take a look at this list, it might assist you.
1. Buy a new outfit
2.Invest your time in a new passion.
3.Join a new club and engage with new like minded people.
4.Talk to a stranger every day , by saying good morning.
5.Check out your physiology and alter your posture.
6.Look at people and smile at them.
7.Imagine your limiting walls breaking down and you stepping into your own personal power.
8. Get a great new hairdo!
9. Imagine how it feels to be confident and adopt that feeling, when you need it.
10. Model some one who is confident.
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There is a universal law at work all the time that is called, the Law of Appreciation.
When you ACTIVATE the law of appreciation, you then DRAW more to you.
Consider this …
If you gave consistent compliments or words of appreciation to someone important to you and they never, expressed any words of appreciation to you, how would you FEEL.
If you are anything like me, I generally withdraw as, I don’t like a ungrateful heart.
However if believe in GOD who designed the universe and you want him to BLESS you more, then how much more will he BLESS you , if you ACTIVATED the law of appreciation.
The first place to consider to start is with yourself.
What do you appreciate about your personality?
What do you appreciate about your looks?
What do you appreciate about your mind?
What do you appreciate about your limbs?
What do you appreciate about your health?
Now create your own APRECIATION, this is the first step towards feeling good bout who you are and improving your SELF WORTH and CONFIDENCE.
If you FOCUS on what is wrong with you, this LAW will ATTRACT more of that to come to you.
If however you FOCUS on what you LIKE about YOU, then this LAW will give you more to notice.
Have a APPRECIATION party with yourself !
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This is my own opinion here , however I do believe there are some evidence in what I am writing.
97% of people around the world will TALK and THINK about their DREAM, yet they have no INTENTION of making it a REALITY.
The other 3% make it HAPPEN.
WOW! that is such a big difference in numbers.
I use to qualify in the 97%, then I discovered that I had to take RESPONSIBILITY if I really wanted my dreams to occr.
Now your dreams, don’t have to be huge , and dynamic, they can be small yet terrifiying to you.
For e.g.
To have confidence to network with people
To have confidence to speak in big groups
To have confidence to go for that interview
To have confidence to speak with confidence
Confidence is a MASSIVE area and affects everyone!
Now if you are SERIOUS about discovering your own CONFDENCE POWER, then call me I can help you.
I use to be very shy and an introvert, I have now mastered how to communicate with confidence and my training is ongoing.
I am always seeking ways to improve myself and how I communicate.
My purpose and passion is to equip, empower and encourage individuals like you.
So give me a call and give your CONFIDENCE the MOT it needs.
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