That is right… Your mind can become CONFIDENT!
Everything we want, first starts in the MIND.
So if you want to become CONFIDENT, then you need to get CONFIDENT POWER in your mind.
The first place to start is to consider what you are FEEDING your mind with.
What are you EXSPOSING your mind too?
Who are you INFLUENCED by?
Where do you spend most of your time?
Who do you listen to?
Who are you modelling?
Every person we have attracted in our lives , they will be either a DRAINER or a RADIATOR.
What does this mean?
In short this means, are individuals pulling you down or are they building your CONFIDENCE.
Confidence is KEY to SUCCESS!
So consider what you are GIVING your mind attention too , is it helping you to feel good about who you are , or is it helping to pull you down and stay stuck.
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Do you really want CONFIDENCE?
Are you really ready to make those tiny little CHANGES?
Have you DECIDED that you are going to take ACTION?
Will you make RESPONSIBILITY your BEST FRIEND?
So to SOAR like a EAGLE with CONFIDENCE, you need to consider all the above.
Getting CONFIDENT,will not happen by thinking about it!
You are going to have to get up and move your BODY and more so CHANGE your THINKING!
The GOOD news is you CAN soar like a EAGLE with CONFIDENCE, as I am living PROOF.
So if you want me to CHALLENGE you, then I will, be prepared to SOAR, like never before.
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when you DECIDE that you are now ready to REAP more CONFIDENCE into your life, how do you use your language?
Let me explain…
Your WORDS have power!
Your WORDS carry energy!
Your WORDS carry a negative vibration or a positive vibration!
Your WORDS will become your REALITY!
Your WORDS will be either a BLESSING or a CURSE to your life!
So the question, you may be considering is, how do I speak into being more CONFIDENT!
Speak life transforming words into you life.
Confess and decree with your mouth, everyday what you want to become. Then notice miracles happen around you.
for e.g.
I am confident
I am happy with who I am
I am assertive, when needed
I am valuable and lovable
I am a positive influence on all those around me
Now consider some of your own.
This is your life, the words you CHOOSE to describe yourself, is what will become yur REALITY, whether NEGATIVE or POSITIVE!
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A new year and a new YOU is just around the corner.
Are you willing to take responsibility for becoming CONFIDENT for 2010!
Take a look at this list, it might assist you.
1. Buy a new outfit
2.Invest your time in a new passion.
3.Join a new club and engage with new like minded people.
4.Talk to a stranger every day , by saying good morning.
5.Check out your physiology and alter your posture.
6.Look at people and smile at them.
7.Imagine your limiting walls breaking down and you stepping into your own personal power.
8. Get a great new hairdo!
9. Imagine how it feels to be confident and adopt that feeling, when you need it.
10. Model some one who is confident.
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There is a universal law at work all the time that is called, the Law of Appreciation.
When you ACTIVATE the law of appreciation, you then DRAW more to you.
Consider this …
If you gave consistent compliments or words of appreciation to someone important to you and they never, expressed any words of appreciation to you, how would you FEEL.
If you are anything like me, I generally withdraw as, I don’t like a ungrateful heart.
However if believe in GOD who designed the universe and you want him to BLESS you more, then how much more will he BLESS you , if you ACTIVATED the law of appreciation.
The first place to consider to start is with yourself.
What do you appreciate about your personality?
What do you appreciate about your looks?
What do you appreciate about your mind?
What do you appreciate about your limbs?
What do you appreciate about your health?
Now create your own APRECIATION, this is the first step towards feeling good bout who you are and improving your SELF WORTH and CONFIDENCE.
If you FOCUS on what is wrong with you, this LAW will ATTRACT more of that to come to you.
If however you FOCUS on what you LIKE about YOU, then this LAW will give you more to notice.
Have a APPRECIATION party with yourself !
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This is my own opinion here , however I do believe there are some evidence in what I am writing.
97% of people around the world will TALK and THINK about their DREAM, yet they have no INTENTION of making it a REALITY.
The other 3% make it HAPPEN.
WOW! that is such a big difference in numbers.
I use to qualify in the 97%, then I discovered that I had to take RESPONSIBILITY if I really wanted my dreams to occr.
Now your dreams, don’t have to be huge , and dynamic, they can be small yet terrifiying to you.
For e.g.
To have confidence to network with people
To have confidence to speak in big groups
To have confidence to go for that interview
To have confidence to speak with confidence
Confidence is a MASSIVE area and affects everyone!
Now if you are SERIOUS about discovering your own CONFDENCE POWER, then call me I can help you.
I use to be very shy and an introvert, I have now mastered how to communicate with confidence and my training is ongoing.
I am always seeking ways to improve myself and how I communicate.
My purpose and passion is to equip, empower and encourage individuals like you.
So give me a call and give your CONFIDENCE the MOT it needs.
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What is your DREAM?
Is it to be more HAPPY?
Is it to have more PEACE?
Is it to have more MONEY?
Is it to FEEL more HAPPY?
Is it to FEEL that you are LOVED?
Is it to loose that WEIGHT?
Is it to become more CONFIDENT?
Is it to have STRONG SELF ESTEEM?
Or maybe your DREAM is much bigger than all the above.
How do you keep your DREAM alive in your mind, like a MOVIE?
Do you NOURISH and FEED your DREAM?
Or are you ALLOWING others to become DREAM STEALERS around you?
Don’t let anyone STEAL your DREAM.
You are WORTHY of having all your DREAMS come alive, you DESERVE it.
Get DREAMING and take what ever ACTION you need to make it HAPPEN!
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Have you ever considered are you…
PLAYING THE WAITING GAME WITH YOUR LIFE?
If you don’t know if you are, then these question’s may activate your answers.
1. I want to recognise my worth and value.
2.I want to communicate with confidence.
3.I want to have more confidence.
4. I want to feel better about who I am.
However do you BLOCK yourself from having SUCCESS with yourself, due to having several conversations like these…
1.I will wait until my holiday is ou of the way.
2. I will wait until Christmas is out of the way.
3. I will wait until I FEEL BETTER.
4. I will wait until the time is right.
If the above speaks to you, then I will CHALLENGE you now to get out of the waiting game that you are stuck in and get you into the ACTION GAME and taking responsibility for your DREAM.
You are WORTH IT!
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Don’t we all love those wonderful EXSCUSES, that we HOLD on to so dearly, that we use to convince ourselves from taking ACTION.
What are excuses?
They are REASONS you give yourself, to STOP you from taking RESPONSIBILITY!
Yes that’s right…
That wonderful word RESPOSIBILITY.
So how do these excuses serve you?
They don’t, they DISEMPOWER you!
Ask your self these simple questions.
1. Do you need this excuses?
2.Does it SERVE you?
3. What would be more USEFUL to think INSTEAD?
4.How do these EXSCUSES move you forward?
5.How can you STOP holding on to them ?
I challenge you to explore a weak area in your life and put the EXCUSES away for a week, tuck them at the back of your mind, just for a WEEK!
Then give yourself ALL the reasons why you should take ACTION.
Then ACT , yes thats right, take ACTION for on WEEK only.
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Have you ever noticed what happens to a individuals face, when they are told CHANGES are going to happen?
This experience fascinates me. As an observer of life and having a passion for human behaviour. Watching how the body responds is quite remarkable. However what is more fascinating is the expressions that individual presents to the world.
Why is it that some individuals FEAR change so much ?
Is it about how it will affect them?
Is it about what they will loose?
Is it about all their insecurities that they have?
It could be any of these ,or much much more.
I like CHANGE, so much so that I endorse POSITIVE CHANGE into my life every year, if not before.
Here is what I think about CHANGE.
1. CHANGE can be so POSITIVE, especially if you take ownership.
2. CHANGE can be so EXCITING!
3. CHANGE can be so EDYFING!
4. CHANGE can be so SEXY!
5. CHANGE can be so EASY!
6. CHANGE can be so LIFE CHANGING!
7. CHANGE can be so TRANSFORMATIONAL!
8. CHANGE can be so INVIGORATING!
9. CHANGE can be so SUCCESSFUL!
10. CHANGE can be the best GIFT you can ever GIVE YOURSELF!
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